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After working with thousands of couples and more than two decades in the sex and relationship therapy field, we know exactly what it takes to help couples reignite their connection and take their mutual pleasure to a whole new level. File size: 82.3 mb
VMTherapy – The Ultimate Sex Guide

No more one-sided experiences. No more routine, predictable, or disappointing moments. The Ultimate Sex Guide is designed to help you and your partner unlock more pleasure, deeper intimacy, and unshakeable connection — every time.
Get ready to experience sex that’s so good, you won’t believe you ever settled for less.
When did sex start feeling like just another chore?
you know how it goes…
It’s late, you’re exhausted. The day has been a nonstop blur of emails, errands, and “what’s for dinner?” You juggled work, kids, laundry, and that never-ending to-do list. You finally collapse into bed, desperate for sleep…
And then… You feel it. Your partner reaching for you.
Cue the hesitation.
The sigh.
The guilt.
The frustration.
When did something that’s supposed to feel so good start feeling like just another obligation?
Unfortunately, we know that for many couples in long term relationships, sex can be hard.
How many times have you been lying there staring at the ceiling afterwards thinking, “Is this really all there is?”
You’re not the only one.
For so many couples, sex slowly shifts from exciting to expected, from passionate to passive.
It becomes more about routine than connection, more about obligation than desire — especially for women.
There’s a sex crisis going on in bedrooms across the world…
“I can tell that my partner just wants it to be over when we’re in the middle of doing it.”
For so many couples, sex becomes more about obligation than desire, more about habit than connection.
If this is what your sex life looks like, you’re not alone and it’s not your fault. It’s not like we were ever taught HOW to have great sex, right?
Well, not until now…
These are the kinds of thoughts that linger — and as time goes on, you feel yourselves drifting further and further apart.
Here are some of the ways we’ve heard sex described:
Uncover the secrets to passion and pleasure with
The Ultimate Sex Guide is your roadmap to unlocking a new level of physical intimacy and connection.
With 42 beautifully illustrated positions, troubleshooting tips, a comprehensive workbook, and even printable position play cards, you’ll both get to explore just how incredible sex can be — and how much closer it can bring you as a couple.
Worried The Ultimate Sex Guide won’t work for you?
After working with thousands of couples and more than two decades in the sex and relationship therapy field, we know exactly what it takes to help couples reignite their connection and take their mutual pleasure to a whole new level.
That’s exactly why we created this guide.
Or you’ve turned to Google and ended up with advice that was either too generic to help or positions that look like you need to be an acrobat to pull off. So frustrating.
Without the right tools or guidance, so many couples settle for “good enough” instead of the mind-blowing connection they truly crave.
Sex is one of the most intimate things you get to do with your partner, and you both deserve to have an incredible experience!
Imagine how your relationship would flourish if both of you know:
Sex is one of the most intimate things you get to do with your partner, and you both deserve to have an incredible experience!
🔥How female pleasure and orgasm REALLY work (FYI: most male-female couples are doing it wrong)
🔥How to close the orgasm gap and understand that there is a gap to begin with (because it’s about damn time!)
🔥How to tie all of these elements together to create a mind-blowing and toe-curling sexual experience
🔥How to approach sex in a way that satisfies BOTH partners
The Ultimate Sex Guide gives away all the secrets!
Fast forward to a future where…
You’re getting actionable advice from a real sex therapist in a long-term relationship.
Hi! We’re Vanessa & Xander.
Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist with degrees in human sexuality and psychology.
Xander is a regular dude with a fresh perspective.
Together they show couples that it’s possible to get more comfortable and confident talking about sex.
now it’s time to ask yourself…
What if everything changes?
What if nothing changes?
Imagine your relationship feeling effortless and exciting — like you’re speaking the same language in and out of the bedroom. A space where you feel seen, heard, and totally satisfied. You’re actually looking forward to sex, because you know it will be playful, deeply connecting, and downright incredible.
That’s exactly what The Ultimate Sex Guide can help you create.
Course Features
- Lecture 0
- Quiz 0
- Duration 10 weeks
- Skill level All levels
- Language English
- Students 0
- Assessments Yes

