Derek Rydall – The Confidence Code

There’s a difference between real confidence and mere cockiness or arrogance. While you can get through tough situations with a certain amount of arrogance, it can also lead to toxic side effects that can harm people and reduce resources. True confidence leaves you and those around you stronger and more prosperous.

Derek Rydall – The Confidence Code

Your only authority is your inner conviction

Real confidence is like Zen and the art of archery, where you come into a state that the arrow is already in the bull’s-Eye before you release the bow.

In that place, you can hit the target blindfolded or in the dark, because you have transcended the illusion that there is a separate you, arrow and target, and realized it’s already one.

From there, you can’t miss!

What could be possible if you had the inner confidence to know that everything you want is already accomplished? This inner conviction is the only authority.

In other words, what you deeply believe and know – what you have unshakable confidence in – is what determines how your life unfold and what’s possible for you.

Outer people, places, opinions, or conditions have no power to determine your life…

• It’s this inner confidence that activates your emerging power.
• It’s this inner confidence that becomes the law of your life.
• It’s this inner confidence that creates your destiny!
• This program is about building that level of confidence.

Unlocking Your Unique Confidence Code

TThis is the ultimate confidence in oneself and life. It is possible to attain this confidence over time.

But developing that kind of unshakable confidence is different for each person and to each endeavor…

We are all at various levels of confidence in our life structures, such as Wealth, Health, Work, Relationships, Spirituality, Personal Development, etc…

Activating your confidence codes is about finding the area where you are most in need of it. It will allow you to create the most leverage in your life, accelerate your success, and do so in the most efficient and effective manner. 

That is your unique confidence codes.

What we’ll do in this course is lay out the framework and foundation, the path, the practice, and the way of life that, if you follow it, will develop this confidence progressively and sometimes dramatically.

This is one trip where you can be sure to lose some baggage.

10 Reasons Confidence
Success is possible with the right leadership

1.The Courage to Begin
In this session, you’ll learn how to hear the guidance that’s always available to you, the broadcast of truth always playing, leading you to your greatest potential… and how to make it actionable in your life to get real-Results from around the world

2.The Take a stand with strength

Confident people have stronger boundaries and stand up for themselves. They value and respect their own self-worth and teach others how to treat them. We are more likely not to feel confident and become a doormat rather than a welcome rug. We have a wishbone and not a backbone.

3. The Ability to say no 
People who are confident have a strong personality. “No” and aren’t afraid to use it. They don’t do things they don’t want to, or that don’t serve the higher good for them and others. They are able to set healthy boundaries, without guilt, shame, blame or guilt.

4.The Ability to Say Yes 

People who are confident have a strong personality “Yes” They are open to saying yes to their yeses! This allows them the opportunity to move on to the next stage of their development and opportunities. Most people are watching, waiting for them to feel safe or sure. But they never feel secure or sure until they act confident.

6.Self-employment-Concept of Success

People with high levels of confidence are more confident and have a stronger self.-A deeper belief in their own self-worth. They don’t let other people’s opinions take them down or sway them from their path. Henry Ford said it best: “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t — you’re right.” Your only authority is your inner conviction. Confidence This gift will make you feel special.

7.The Ability to think Big

A confident person tends not to dream big but aims high. When the goal seems out of reach, they don’t pray to have a smaller goal, they pray to have a further reach! A person without confidence will shrink under pressure, set small goals or none at all, and end up living in quiet desperation and mediocrity.

8.The Willingness and courage to be bold

Confidence means being willing to take risks and push the boundaries of their comfort zone. It also allows them to take bold, decisive actions that can bring about big results. They exercise their inner and outer muscles beyond what they’ve done before, making them stronger and capable of doing even bigger, better things. There are no limits to how brilliant, strong, and successful you can be – only the limitations you accept.

9.The Asking questions is a curiosity

The Your quality questions are a major factor in the quality and quantity of your life. When you’re confident, you ask more questions and better quality questions. You will also ask for what it is you want, when and how much you want. Ask and you will receive. Confident person makes a big ask of life…and receives a big answer!

10. A Success Expectation

People who are confident believe they will succeed. They practice winning, see themselves as victors and not victims, and have an inner knowing that they can and will win. This is what Michelangelo did when he sculpted his famous David statue (of David, Goliath). He didn’t sculpt David fighting Goliath or slaying Goliath, he sculpted David in the moment when David knew that he could and would win the battle. Goliath was gone in that moment, before David even stepped foot on the battlefield. That’s the power of the Confidence Code unlocked!

The 12 Step Combination to Unlock your Potential Confidence

In order to build confidence, there are 12 areas you need to focus on. You don’t have to do all of them right away or perfect them to have confidence. To unlock the confidence code, you must set your sights on mastering each one.

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Create a clear vision of your desired result. Our minds have a unique system to help us focus on the things we want. We get fuzzy results when we have fuzzy goals. Foggy destinations can lead to lost! Have you ever been lost? How confident were your feelings? Your steps become hesitant and uncertain. You take it slow and sometimes just give up. But when you know where you’re going, you not only move forward without the brakes on – you can put the gas on!

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Be a Vibrational Match for Your Success Even when you know where you’re going, if you don’t internally feel congruent with it, if you aren’t emotionally and mentally aligned, you can feel torn, moving in two directions at once. For example, you’re on your way to meet a potential partner, but instead of feeling whole, powerful, and in love, you feel inadequate and have visions of past relationships gone bad. You know where you’re going, but you’re conflicted. How confident are you? It’s like the Zen parable about riding two horses at the same time in different directions — not a fun experience! It’s the root of ambition – ambi, to go in two different directions. It breaks us down, and it tears us apart.

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Pick a Path & Stay the Course Until You Get the Result. This is how you build character. Without this level of commitment, you’ll hit your thresholds and fall off track or pull back. This can go on for a long time, and you will never be able to grow the areas that you need to live the life you were meant. If this is not addressed, it can lead to frustration, depression, addiction, and a lack of fulfillment. Progress is the only way to truly joy. This principle must be followed with a steady practice. It is impossible to make sustainable progress without it.

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Create a life that leads inexorably to the result. Our lives are often not designed but simply default. The people, places, things and activities tend to reflect where we’ve been but not where we want to go. They reflect a need for acceptance and safety, which is a result of a lack of power. If we set our goals and live them, we can unlock the confidence code that will allow us to tap into the hidden talents, gifts, or abilities that will help us reach the next level.

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Build the Confidence-Competence Loop. At this point, you’re building real momentum and moving into this upward spiral. That’s what we want, momentum in the direction of confidence and expansion. This is crucial. You cannot lose momentum if it becomes subjective. You must keep moving forward with all your energy. It can lead eventually to burnout or, at the very worst, pulling back and settling. As you learn how to apply this principle, you’ll create a success pattern that puts your growth, expansion, and your capacity for achievement on autopilot! This is a game!-changer.

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Let go of the Resistance Confidence. In this module, we’ll deal with some of the key areas that sabotage your confidence: procrastination, lack of commitment, lack of follow through, waiting to feel good/comfortable, self-worth, etc. You’ll learn why you really procrastinate, what’s really underneath it, and how to heal it. You’ll discover why you don’t follow through, why you wait to feel good/comfortable, what’s really going on with the core self-worth issues…and much more. The This session will help you to take a deep breath, expand your possibilities, and move forward in the direction of all your dreams.

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Clearing the Shadows Confidence. Your shadows are unconscious patterns trying to get your attention so they can be redeemed and integrated — but we often spend a lifetime trying to ignore, fix, or repress them. In this module, you’ll understand the core shadows to confidence, where they come from, why you created them, and how to work with them so that they become allies in your evolution!

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Emotional mastery. Confidence is achieved by learning to feel your emotions, be with them, and not react. They can take control of your life in many ways that are unconscious, which can rob you of your power and make it difficult to soar. We’ll go deep into this one…and you’ll come out the other side more balanced, integrated, grounded, and alive!

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Eliminating Emotional Reasoning. We’ve been conditioned to be run by our emotions, believing they have power, but they really don’t. Emotions are energy in motion. They tell us what we believe, they don’t tell us the truth. While they’re valuable for understanding our unconscious patterns, we shouldn’t let them determine what we do. You can be free from them. ‘emotional reasoning,’ No matter how you feel, you have the potential to do whatever you set your mind to. You are no longer stuck. You become more productive, empowered, and ultimately unstoppable. Only one module can change your life.

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The Self Care System A person who is in good physical condition, with healthy foods, water, and exercise, is more confident overall. In this module, we’ll talk about how focusing on the areas of greatest leverage can lead to massive increases in productivity, follow through, self esteem and confidence. This is a key component in maximizing your confidence and will help you reach your full potential.

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The Confidence Journey. Confidence building doesn’t end. These steps will make you more confident, especially when you complete an entire cycle. You will always have more to do. And sometimes you will feel LESS confident because you’ve hit a new threshold, a new level — you’ve adjusted to the old level and it’s so natural that you don’t see how far you’ve come and you can feel like you’ve gone backwards. In this module, we’ll talk about how to deal with the ongoing journey of building lifelong confidence!

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